From the Founder: Why Advocacy Matters to Me

rechaven • April 24, 2026

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This is my son. He’s standing in a hospital room in a gown that’s three sizes too big, staring up at medical equipment he doesn’t understand, trusting the adults in the room to speak for him. To do right by him. To protect him.


And in that moment, I’m reminded, again, why I’m building REC Haven Inc.


You would think as a parent you walk into a doctor’s office and everything should feel safe and straightforward. You ask questions, you get answers, and everyone works together. But it doesn’t always happen that way. Sometimes parents aren’t listened to. Sometimes we’re talked around instead of talked to. Sometimes medical terms are thrown at us like we’re supposed to automatically understand them, even though most families were never taught how to read a lab result, what a “normal range” actually means, or when we should say, “I’m not sure I agree with that—can we look deeper?”


I’ve had moments—more than I can count—where my instincts as a mom were brushed aside or dismissed. I’ve seen the way that lack of clarity leaves parents feeling anxious, helpless, or confused. And I’ve learned something that I can’t ignore:


Children are safest when the adults who love them know how to advocate for them.


Advocacy isn’t just being protective. It’s understanding.

Understanding how to read what’s on that screen.

Understanding what questions to ask.

Understanding how to make sure your child’s voice is heard—even when they can’t speak up for themselves.


That is one of the pillars of REC Haven Inc.

We’re not just building programs for children. We’re helping strengthen the adults who care for them. We’re empowering families to handle the everyday things—budgeting, cooking, life skills—but also the big things. The things that impact a child’s health, safety, and future.


And as my son stands there barefoot in that oversized gown, I’m reminded of every child who doesn’t have an adult fully equipped to advocate for them. I’m reminded of the teens who age out of the system and face adulthood without anyone to guide them. I’m reminded of the parents who love their kids deeply but were never taught what they now need to teach.


And I’m reminded why we’re doing this.


We’re building something that can change the future—by supporting the present.



Love Today. Strength Tomorrow.

That’s our promise.

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